I thought I'd head back to life lessons I have learned from the important people in my life. It's time to talk about the two fine individuals who brought me into this world. My parents are two remarkable people who have equipped me with the lessons and tools needed to be a valued member of society. I clearly could write for days about what they've taught me, but I will narrow it down to the three lessons that have stuck with me the most.
Learn from your mistakes
If I had a dollar for every time my father has said this to me, I could easily pay off my student loans. What I love about my dad is that he never was mad at me for making an honest mistake. In fact, he often applauded me for my efforts in going after something. He would tell me that I will make mistakes all of my life, but that I always needed to learn from them. A mistake is only a mistake the first time. Each time after that it is a choice. This little piece of advice has helped me grow into a better person. I am not scared to try new things and have the occasional mishap because I know I will learn what I did wrong and fix it for the next go round. A life that is truly lived will be full of mistakes. Just make sure you listen to my dad and learn from them.
When you get, give
I told my mom once that my personality is all my dad, but my heart is my mom. My mom has always selflessly given all of herself whenever she can, and I think the world would be better off if we all did that more often. She is happiest when she is doing for others, and I find that to be remarkably admirable. When you get the chance, give. It doesn't have to be monetary; it can just be your time. My mom has shown me the importance of removing the mirror that so many people place in front of themselves--the mirror that only reflects back one's own image. She taught me to look out and see others and to constantly ask how I can help them, too. My mom champions for "we" not "me."
Respect
I think the best lesson my parents ever taught me was the importance of respect. From the moment my little brain could comprehend ideas, my parents demanded that I respect everyone. When you see someone you know, go up and say hello. If you don't agree with someone, do not argue. State your feelings (respectfully), and then drop it. When an adult is speaking to you, listen. Treat other's property better than you'd treat your own. Look someone in the eyes when you talk to them. When someone asks you a question, answer them truthfully. It all boils down to respect. Respect gets you further in life, and that is something I can attest to. I can't thank my parents enough for this lesson.
My parents have given me the world. I have never needed anything or wanted anything because they have always been enough. I am who I am because of the lessons from them (and Kenny, who thought he was my parent when I was a kid). My love and respect for them is endless. These lessons have made me into a decent human being, so I would have to recommend them to each of you.
Go do great things,
BT
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